在一位名叫Puzzled Mom的学生家长的博客上，你看到了以下内容。请根据该博客，给这位家长回复，词数为120左右。
I’m the mother of a 16-year-old. I have set a rule for my daughter: be among the top five students or get punished in one way or another. She has been doing very well in school, but some friends of mine keep telling me that I put too much pressure on her. Am I wrong?
要点：1．陈述自己的看法。
2．说明理由(可举例子)。
3．提出建议。
Puzzled Mom,
What puzzles you is actually a puzzle for many parents in China. My idea is that what you do may not be right.
Though grades are an important factor in evaluating students and for their future university admission, development in wisdom, emotion, health and life attitudes should never be ignored. There are many examples around us. Some all-A students in school have turned out not to be as successful in society as they were expected. The reason is often that the pressure from their parents allows them no time for other activities. Furthermore, punishment is by no means a wise choice to help them grow up mentally and physically.
I suggest that you take your friends’ advice. Let your daughter take part in more social activities and let her make mistakes, which is quite normal.
Yours,
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