Most people would never even consider quitting without having another job lined up, and even fewer would recommend it. 16 And someone dear to me is also going to quit. It’s definitely not a solution for everyone and a lot of people are just able to figure out their path in life while employed fulltime. But it is an option and one that requires a lot of strength, determination, and preparation from a financial, emotional and mental standpoint. Three things you must have before becoming deliberately unemployed:
※ A solid support system. Surround yourself with people who will encourage you and
accept your decision even if they don’t agree with it 100 percent. It’s important that they’re honest with you but not in a trying–to–scare–you kind of way. 17 It’s also important to know who not to tell. Not everyone needs to know every detail about your life, especially if you know you’ll receive a lot of negative comments.
※ Money. 18 You need enough money to support you in two to three months of
life or a way to earn money on a part – time or contract basis.
※ Confidence. You need to know – and I mean, really, really believe – that you’re going to make great achievements. Chance are that you will experience emotional ups and downs once you’re deliberately unemployed. 19 At the same time anxiety and fear will appear. Trust and constantly remind yourself that you did the right thing and that you will be okay and happier than ever. 20
A. But I quit, my best friend did too.
B. You’ re already scared enough.
C. The risk is worth the reward.
D. It’ s the stupidest decision you’ve ever made.
E. Doubt will gradually destroy your self-confidence.
F. To many people, it makes no sense.
G. This is when your emergency fund comes in handy.