生活中冲突时有发生。假设你班同学苏华和李江打篮球时发生争执，

生活中冲突时有发生。假设你班同学苏华和李江打篮球时发生争执，导致关系紧张。请你结合此事,并根据以下提示，用英语写一篇短文，向学校英文报“Happy Teens”专栏投稿。

注意： 对所有要点逐一陈述，适当发挥，不要简单翻译。

Conflicts with others are common in everyday life．___________________________

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Conflicts with others are common in everyday life. During the basketball game yesterday afternoon, Su Hua and Li Jiang bumped into each other, trying to catch the

ball. Then they started shouting and yelling, and it turned into a horrible quarrel.

To be honest, it was Su’s fault but Li was also to blame---they were not calm enough and both said some really mean things. They cared too much about winning and losing. As a matter of fact, blocking, pushing and bumping are just part of a tough game.

  To avoid such conflicts, we should be kind to one another, which is essential to enjoying a harmonious life. It is also a virtue to forgive and forget, especially in such competitive and stressful society. Instead of blaming each other, we should  communicate more and put ourselves in others’ place.

  Don’t be self centered and try to be considerate. We must 1earn to handle conflicts calmly and wisely.