下面文章中有5处(第61～65题)需要添加小标题。请从以下选项(A、B、C、D、E和F)中选出符合各段意思的小标题。选项中有一项是多余选项。
A．Avoid asking your child too many questions
B．Tell your child stories about your growing up
C．Don't judge or criticize your child
D．Listen to your kids with respect
E．Provide pressurefree conversation opportunities
F．Ask children gently what they think
If your child has gone from a continuous chatterbox to making conversations that consist mostly of yes and no, it's time to consider these tips on how to talk to kids, so you'll know what's going on in your child's world.
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The quickest way to get kids to shut up and, as a result, shut you out of their lives is to continuously press them about things. A more effective way is to sit back and patiently wait for them to open up in a lowstress family and then be prepared to listen.
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Parents can sometimes make kids at a young age decide it is best not to talk about something when they are criticized. If you really want to know what's on your child's mind, then avoid passing judgment and focus instead on why something seems important to your child.
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If you want to raise a creative and independent thinker, stop telling your child what he ought to feel or think. You can gently encourage additional conversations by simply asking why he feels the way he does or what he would do in a certain situation.
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You may think you're just asking questions out of curiosity when communicating with your child, but an endless stream of questions about what they did, whether everyone got along, if they went to the bathroom, etc. , are enough to make anyone shut up! Practice patience and let your kids open up on their terms.
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Kids can relate to you and other adults when you tell your stories happening when you were their age. Talking to kids by telling them about things like something embarrassing that happened or the first crush (迷恋) you had helps them to connect with you and understand that you might actually know what they are going through!