Whether you' re a child, teenager, young adult or are middle-aged, respect for your
parents is an important value. Your parents are the people who raised you, devoting time,
energy and money to your development. 36 No matter your age, there are 5 ways to show
respect.
●Respect their belongings. One important way to show respect is to show regard for the
things important to your parents. For younger children, this may mean not touching jewelry
or other valuable things. For grown children, respect may mean returning a borrowed tool in
good condition and on time. Lack of respect for a parent's belongings is a violation of personal
boundaries. 37 And never borrow things without asking first.
●Punctuality .
38 Therefore, always be on time. For teenagers, showing up on time means coming
home by curfew（宵禁）.Adult children should show up on time for family dinners or events,
or to pick a parent up for a medical appointment. Call if you're going to be late because
parents worry about children, no matter their age.
●_39 Remembering birthdays, anniversaries and other special days is a sign that you
honor your parents. Make plans to take them to lunch or dinner or bake a cake or cookies.
Most parents don't expect expensive gifts, but a handmade gift is always appreciated .A phone
call from a grown child who lives too far for a visit is a welcome sign of respect.
●Be kind.
Kind words and affection are simple ways to show respect. Tell your parents you love
them. Listen and allow your parents to speak without interruption. Show a sincere interest in
what your parents have to say. Be patient with your parents and don't rush them. Never talk
back or be rude or disrespectful. Acknowledge your parents' achievements. 40
A．Be a good listener.
B．Celebrate with them.
C. Lateness indicates a lack of respect.
D. Treat your parents the way you would like to be treated.
E. And they love you unconditionally throughout your life.
F. Being respectful helps build positive relationships with others.
G. Don't take advantage of your parents' kindness and generosity.