When asked to point out one or two things that are most important to themselves, many put friends ahead of homes, jobs, clothes and cars.
A true friendship carries a long history of experience that determines who we are and keeps us connected. It is a treasure we should protect. Unfortunately, the better friends you are, the more probably you'll have disagreements. And the result can be what you don't want — an end to the relationship.
The good news is that most troubled friendships can be mended. First, don't let your pride get in your way. Most of us can forgive（原谅）each other when differences are brought out in the open. Second, apologize when you're wrong — even if you've been wronged. Over the course of a friendship, even the best people make mistakes. Sometimes, it may be best if the wronged person takes the lead and apologizes. When you apologize, give your friend a chance to admit that he has been wrong. Third, see things from your friend's point of view . And finally, accept that friendships change as our needs and lifestyles change. Making friends can sometimes seem easy. The hard part is keeping the connections strong during the natural ups and downs that have an effect on all relationships. My suggestion: Consider friendship an honor and a gift, and worth the effort to treasure and nurture (培养).
41. What would be the best title for the text?
A. Easy Ways to Make Friends B. Ups and Downs in Friendship
C. How to Mend a Troubled Friendship D. How to Take the Lead in Making Friends
42. The "wronged person" underlined in the text refers to a person _______.
A. who has been mistaken for another B. who has been blamed unfairly
C. who has treated friends badly D. who has admitted his mistakes
43. According to the text , a friendship can last long only if _______.
A. we have much in common B. we know our friends' mistakes
C. we treat our disagreements wisely D. we have known one another for long
44. What should we do if we follow the author's second suggestion?
A. Stick to our own point of view. B. Avoid making mistakes.
C. Make an apology first. D. Change our lifestyles.
45. Which is the following is NOT true according to the passage?
A. Even wise people are likely to make mistakes.
B. Troubled friendships can be made up in proper ways.
C. All people take friends as their most important thing in their life.
D. It’s a good chance for your friend to show his being wrong when you apologize.