Are you the type of person who always says“yes”？I’ve come to learn that i

    Are you the type of person who always says“yes”？I’ve come to learn that it is very important to learn to say NO！It’s okay. People are still going to like you. They may even respect you more because they know you are honest.

    I，m not saying to say“no" to someone who really needs your help. I’m talking about refusing that meeting that you really do not want to attend or that birthday party that you don’t want to be a guest at.

Think for a moment how you feel when you say YES to something that you really don't want to do. If you’re like I once was，you can’t sleep at night and you think about it too much.

It weighs on your mind. You try to find ways out. Whatever you’re saying to yourself，if you really wanted to go，you wouldn’t have all of these thoughts.

    So，why not just say NO from the beginning? Maybe you feel like if you don’t show up at the meeting（by the way，it is not one you must attend) your boss isn’t going to like you or your co-workers won’t respect you. Maybe you feel as if your mom，dad or sisters won’t love you as much if you don’t do everything for them that they ask every occasion.

    If these people are your true friends，family members，or a good boss，they will like or love you the same no matter what. People treat you the way you teach them to，and if you’re someone who always says“yes" then that’s what they，re expecting.

    You need to do what is right for you. Of course we do have real obligations in life to fulfill，but we do not have to do everything others want us to do.

64．Which of the following statements would the writer agree with？

    A. We should try to do what our friends ask us to do.

    B. We should help others in need.

    C. Always saying“yes" means you are dishonest.

    D. Always saying“no" means you are brave.

65．What does the underlined word，’ It" in Paragraph 3 refer to?

    A. Saying "yes"． B. A friend's birthday party.

    C. Something you’re unwilling to do.  D. Something you think difficult to do.

66．The writer believes that if you say“no" to your family members，you’11＿·

    A. have the same relationship with them as before

    B. have a loose relationship with them

    C. disappoint them

    D. upset them

67．What would be the best title for the passage?

    A. Learn to Make a Right Choice  B. To Be Yourself

    C. Do What You Want to Do     D. Learn to Say No

64.B 推理判断题。由第二段的第一、二句可知B正确。

65.C 词义猜测题。结合上句可知是讲述自己答应做自己根本就不愿意做的事情而带来的烦恼，故可知指代内容是C。

66.A 细节理解题。由第一段“People are still going to like you”和倒数第二段“they will like or love you the same no matter what”可知A正确。

67.D 主旨大意题。作者自始至终鼓励读者：对于自己不愿意做的事，要大胆地予以拒绝。故选D。